Episode 74: Simps and Pick Mes

This one might hurt somebody’s feelings but, on the couch, sips get real! This bonus episode was recorded before one of our previous episodes and we’re so glad we started the mics’ recording early. Join us in our impromptu, honest and unfiltered conversation about Simps and Pick Mes (aka Pickmeishas). These terms have become popular insults the past year, and we took a moment to rant about their (over)usage, meanings, implications, and more. Grab your glass, a friend, and take a deep breath as we discuss Russell Wilson and Ciara, dating and relationship standards, what marriage really means, self-authenticity, accountability, and more!

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Episode Timeline

0:00 Intro
0:05 What’s a pick me?
4:59 What’s wrong with simps?
6:59 How to know when you’ve won an argument.
8:30 Russell Wilsons vs. Futures
9:20 Being held to a standard
10:24 Shaming and jealousy
12:30 The bitter and mad single friend
14:15 Women want jewelry and leverage not marriage
17:20 Marriage is not one-size-fits-all; but it’s a commitment
19:44 Self-authenticity: avoiding social manipulation and control
24:25 Being honest about who you are is not being a pick me
29:40 Privately vs. publicly
31:32 Going against the status quo
32:55 Russell Wilson and Ciara
38:48 Reverse psychology
42:48 Outro